"Did Mommy not show you enough tits? Poor little Klausi. Thinks he can just go on like he always does. But unfortunately, I gotta tell you that he can't.  This was the very last time I let you insult me.  Your disrespectful and vulgar way of talking is repelling and disgusting "                                                                                        L.O. (The terrified 'Victim')

False Criminal Charges

 

When the Abuser Becomes the Victim

 

In the aftermath of the hacking campaign that left over twenty of my online accounts compromised, I had just begun the process of orienting myself, recovering lost access, securing platforms, and taking stock of the damage.

That’s when the next blow fell.

Unbeknown to me, on 18 December 2024, L.O. approached the German authorities, and subsequently Interpol as well, with an entirely fabricated but practiced narrative. According to her, I was a dangerous, obsessive stalker. A man unhinged and a abuser. A threat to her safety just as the men from all her previous relationships had turned out to be. And based solely on this story, supported by nothing but a few emotionally charged emails I had sent during my spiral into reactive abuse, she successfully laid a list of charges so extensive it truly staggers the mind.

 

She is essentially charging a 60 year old man whom she had just caused to lose his only income and who lives over 8000km away from her with the following:

Threats, intimidation, Impersonation, Cyber forgery and data alteration, Cyber extortion, Disclosure of data, Misuse of intimate images, Fraud, Stalking, Sexual assault, Revenge porn, Hacking , and other related offenses.

In short, she accused me of everything she and her accomplice had just spent the previous two weeks doing to me.  No real evidence was submitted. No forensic analysis. No attempt to corroborate her claims. I was not contacted or asked any questions, just like in the PIKA banning I was not even afforded the chance to defend myself, nor to give my side of the story. My number is publicly available yet not a single investigating officer called me. That is how good she is at using the victim narrative. At turning society's defense mechanism against itself. A true covert narcissist giving an award winning performance, a compelling victim narrative, delivered with practiced emotion, to institutions all too eager to believe the first person to speak.

The timing was not a coincidence. She filed these charges just two weeks after the hacking ended, while still actively working her way into the good graces of her new employer and new target. It was a preemptive strike. A smokescreen. She knew I was starting to uncover what she had done and what she was about to do, so she did what all skilled manipulators do: she accused her victim of her own crimes before I could do the same.

Valentine's Day

I don't know if she did it on purpose, but by February the 14th, on Valentines Day, the consequences reached my doorstep. The South African police, acting on international cooperation protocols, arrived in a pre-dawn raid to confiscate my computer equipment and devices. With five vehicles at 04h00 AM they descended on my house, showed me a search warrant and proceeded to take my equipment, cellphone and passport. The same passport I had specifically ordered so as to be able to travel to Germany to meet with the narcissist con-artist. If that's not irony I don't know what is. 

Reversal of Roles
I, the actual victim of an orchestrated digital and psychological attack, having suffered therapy needing levels of narcissistic abuse, was now being treated as the offender and abuser! The audacity of it was staggering, but not surprising. After months of manipulation, betrayal, and calculated abuse, L.O. had seized control of the narrative once again. But this time there was a difference, this time I not only had the evidence, I was willing to use it.


I had kept quiet too long, allowing her to smear my name, not standing up for myself. Maybe I had still hoped for reconciliation. Maybe I was just hoping for closure. But on the February morning I suddenly realized just how I had been played. And how I was still being played. I would not make the mistake of letting her fool me again. I resolved to do whatever it took to make sure the world knew what had really happened here. 


Why a Narcissist Lays False Criminal Charges

Introduction

When L.O. had finished hacking my accounts she went on the defensive. She attacked again. Not through digital sabotage.But by filing false criminal charges . It was a calculated maneuver. Designed not to win, but to destroy.

The Narcissist’s Psychological Need for Control

At the core of narcissistic behavior lies a fragile ego. When I caused her banning it created a narcissistic injury, a perceived threat to her self-image. And she needed revenge.

In order to feel superior again she needed to destroy me. That included my reputation, freedom, and resources.

From Wounded Ego to Legal Retaliation

To her, truth is irrelevant. Narrative is everything. Legal systems, unfortunately, offer the perfect stage.
By filing false charges, she weaponized the justice system itself. She reframed her abuse as my crime.
The goal is not a conviction. It is humiliation. Distraction. Isolation. A reversal of roles where she is the victim and I am a publicly branded villain.

Why False Charges Are So Effective

  1. Instant Power Shift – Once charges are filed, the target becomes reactive. Defending. Explaining. Panicked.

  2. Credibility Damage – Even if the case is dismissed, the accusation lingers like smoke after a fire.

  3. Emotional Chaos – It is not just about fear. It is about wearing you down. She continues to 'control'

  4. Legal Weaponization – Narcissists often hide behind bureaucracies. They use “the system” as a smokescreen to continue psychological abuse.

Real-World Impact on Victims

Victims of false accusations face real consequences:

  • Loss of income, jobs, or social standing

  • Damage to mental health due to fear and uncertainty

  • Legal costs, travel restrictions, confiscated devices

  • Dismissal of actual evidence of abuse once the narcissist flips the narrative

This is not just frustrating. It is psychologically devastating.

Final Warning: How to Protect Yourself

  • Document everything. Messages, voice notes, call logs.

  • Do not confront the narcissist alone once legal escalation is suspected.

  • Seek legal advice early. 

  • Treat every smear or veiled threat as a serious threat.

  • Stay calm and remember that you are not the abuser.

Conclusion

False criminal charges are not rare accidents in narcissistic relationships. They are the final weapon. When truth threatens illusion, the narcissist retaliates with projection. They do not just deny your story. They attempt to overwrite it with their own.

But exposure cuts deeper than accusation. Once their patterns are seen clearly, especially by others, the house of cards begins to fall.

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The Banning on Quora

Something odd happened on July 8th, 2025 that I think is worth sharing.

Early that morning, someone accessed this website from Austria, between 1:00 a.m.  and 1:30 a.m.  The browsing pattern was methodical, focusing on the security logs and the false charges page, where I detail the fake criminal charges the narcissist has laid against me.... Then, at 4:15 a.m. I got a message on Quora from a brand new account called "Mildred Mildred."

Just two words: "Hello Klaus."

No questions, no explanation. No apology. Seven months of silence and then this? It was the first message I had received from her since November 2024 and it was even shorter than her last one, that had said: "I hope u r fine. for now...have a nice time! Immediately after that message I had been subjected to a 10 day long cyber attack where she had tried to steal my funds and damage me digitally. 

Again, the timing felt deliberate, right after she'd clearly been reading what I'd posted here about her false charges. In all she visited 10 pages on this site before opening the account on Quora. I'll be the first to admit, I responded with anger. I told her I knew it was her and then I went into some detail as to how I felt about her and what she had done to me. . 

A few hours later, my Quora account was suspended. No questions asked, no chance to explain. My account of 10 years was gone in an instant.  Now, I can't prove exactly what happened, but the sequence seems pretty clear.

Send a brief, seemingly innocent message, then report the response you knew it would provoke. It's a way to make someone else look like the aggressor while keeping your own hands clean. Remove the context, and suddenly the person reacting looks unreasonable. 

It's actually a clever tactic, if you think about it. In our digital world, platforms often act on reports quickly and often using bots, and the person who files first controls the narrative. The narcissist L.O. is an expert at making the social platforms do the dirty work for her. She had me banned from PIKA where she first pursued me, then later she had me banned from WhatsApp, Telegram and now Quora. Always the same method. Act innocent and reasonable after first abusing the victim, then when you finally contact the victim and they react with anger, take that angry reaction and use it as a means of proving that the user is unstable and claim your victimhood. 

The good news? One of the moderators is himself a victim of narcissistic abuse, and after hearing my story, checking that the account of the complainant was only just created, and knowing what these predators are  capable of, my Quora account was reinstated.

But it got me thinking about how easy it is to manipulate these systems when you understand how they work. I'm sharing this not for drama, but because I think it's a pattern worth recognizing. Sometimes the person claiming to be harassed is actually the one doing the harassing, they're just better at working the system. She has clearly done this before, as I have an email of hers where she approached the Discord support group, communicating on a first name basis with the personel, asking about deleting her entire chat history with multiple users. She did the same in PIKA, where I have an email in which she confesses to having in person meetings with a German moderator named Rhapsody and where she brags about how she has the whole mod team "behind her" (see below)

Anyway, that's what happened. The timestamps and logs tell the story pretty clearly, and now you know why I prefer having my own space to share what's actually going on.

 

Here she basically admits that she is keeping my abusive reaction emails as ammunition to use against me. She also threatens to meet, in person, a Discord moderator who will help her make sure I never set foot in the AI field again. And what was it that I did that was so horrendous? I took screenshots of our chats. Because she always deleted them after she abused me. When she discovered that the evidence was not deleted,,,,this was her reaction. Blackmail and threats.