The Dom Dilemma

Could Dom be J.H.’s Biological Son?

This page presents a set of known facts, timelines, and documented statements that—when taken together—suggest an alternate interpretation of the relationship dynamics between Dom, J.H., and L.O. While no single piece of evidence is conclusive, the collected material invites the reader to consider possible hidden familial connections.

 

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Known Facts and Timeline Markers

• Dom’s approximate age appears to be 40–42, based on visual cues and indirect references. This would place his birth year around 1982–1984.

• J.H. and L.O.’s mother married around 2015–2016. At that time, L.O. would have been 20–21, and Dom approximately 31–33.

• If Dom is J.H.’s biological son, this would place J.H.’s fatherhood in his late teens or early 20s, entirely plausible given the generational gap.

• A WhatsApp message from L.O. confirms she once lived in the Stepfathers house but left after a hostile incident with Dom. She claims:

  “Because I told him to stop saying these sex comments to me. I finally told him after he did that my whole life. He escalated a week later. I was at their house, he came downstairs and screamed at me about how bad I am etc., insulting me etc. wanted to throw me out. My mom told him, if one of us goes, he is the one. Then he wanted to leave. But it is his house, so I said, no, I will go. I never was there since then.”

• This incident, if true, appears to involve long-standing behavioral patterns. L.O. states, “he did that my whole life,” suggesting they cohabitated for years, perhaps predating 2015.

• Dom’s emotionally vulnerable message to L.O. references the April 2020 rehab stay at Haus Vogelsang, which is when they allegedly “met.” However, his wording implies prior emotional buildup:

  “I did all of it because I wanted you to leave me. And it worked perfectly, until the day I realized this was becoming something real.”

  This suggests they had been interacting for some time prior to the relationship becoming romantic.

• In the same message, Dom refers to watching a movie together (Crazy/Beautiful), listening to a specific song on repeat (Hungry Eyes), and having emotional withdrawal symptoms (“I couldn’t get enough”). These indicate a deep emotional entanglement before cohabitation.

• Dom writes:

  “We even had pictures together.”

  A significant detail. L.O. is known to avoid photographs with romantic partners, especially male ones. The fact that Dom highlights this may suggest a longstanding bond rather than a short-term affair.

• Dom claims:

  “You didn’t have a place after your move, and I needed to get out of Vogelsang anyway.”

  This implies that L.O. moved without a destination in mind, at age 24–25, and that Dom was transitioning out of Vogelsang. If she had no fixed address and he was still in a rehab centre, this might indicate a shared or overlapping domestic setting—possibly the Stepfathers residence.

• He continues:

  “I even asked my therapist if it was insane to ask you to move in together so soon.”

  But it is unclear whether this refers to a new home or a transition from an existing shared environment (e.g. J.H.’s house) into their own space.

• Another passage:

  “There were so many moments I wanted to kiss you, hold your hand as we passed each other...”

  This suggests a shared location without romantic engagement, possibly familial proximity before romantic escalation.

• Dom refers to L.O. comforting him on a bed, not “our bed”, which he describes as the moment when “the demon inside me woke up.”

• Dom makes an intriguing distinction:

  “The first lost family was my real one. Not the one with Kerstin. That was never my family.”

  This implies a previous foundational family, possibly with a mother figure who is no longer part of his life. If J.H. raised Dom solo for any period, this reference becomes especially charged.

• He refers to “my son” in passing, but distances himself from Kerstin and never elaborates on the son's age or role in his life.

• In reference to L.O.’s physical features, he remarks:

  “I never told you how beautiful I thought you were... how your nose looked perfect (I'd never have guessed it was operated on).”

  Notably, this confirms L.O.’s current nose shape has been the same since at least 2020. She has cited this cosmetic surgery in recent disability claims, but there appears to have been no follow-up surgical work. This makes it highly likely that the story is just another method to extract sympathy or money.

 

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Additional Observations

• Dom never publicly denied or clarified his relationship to J.H.

• J.H. himself was curiously evasive when questioned about Dom. He would never mention Dom once, despite repeated communications.

• The age difference between Dom and L.O. is at least 10–15 years. If he lived in the J.H. house during her adolescence, this would have placed them in an almost sibling-like arrangement at first.

• If Dom had earlier romantic partners during that time, this might have triggered jealousy in L.O. as she matured, possibly influencing her eventual seduction strategy. Narcissists have little morals and do not hesitate to commit incest as evidenced by L.O. admitting to French Kissing her own younger sister. So having relations with her step brother wouldn't bother her any more than sleeping with an alien. 

 

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Conclusion

Dom and J.H. bear a remarkable physical resemblance. Dom appears to have been deeply embedded in the J.H. household long before his romantic involvement with L.O. Several of Dom’s comments indicate familiarity, guilt, emotional suppression, and a long prelude to their relationship. The WhatsApp messages and timeline alignments suggest Dom may have functioned not as a distant outsider, but as someone with longstanding, possibly familial ties to J.H. No definitive claims are made here. This is merely a collation of observable facts and documented statements. Readers may draw their own conclusions.