." L.O.
The Timeline: Key Events Overview
This chronological summary provides the essential framework of documented events. Each date links to detailed evidence and analysis in the full timeline sections.
Phase 1: Idealization
26th August 2023 - Approached by L.O. on Discord server.
Initial contact and relationship establishment
25th September 2023 - L.O. Returns after absence - Idealization begins
Strategic re-engagement and love bombing campaign commences
30th December 2023 - Christmas voice message wishing we can meet in 2024
Future faking and emotional escalation
Phase 2: Devaluation A
12th February 2024 - Voice message from L.O. showing reluctance to meet.
First signs of devaluation and withdrawal tactics
18th March 2024 - L.O. threatens to get me fired. Blackmails me by threatening to write to my wife. She does both.
Escalation to professional sabotage and coercion
Phase 2: Devaluation B
14th May 2024 - L.O. blocks me on my birthday - silent treatment
Calculated emotional cruelty and punishment tactics
11th June 2024 - Fighting escalates - threatens and blackmails me
Direct threats and continued coercive behavior
13th July 2024 - Gets me banned from PIKA (the same platform she approached me on)
Platform manipulation and reputation sabotage
Phase 4: Discard
15th July 2024 - I get L.O. banned after showing mods screenshots of our conversation.
Counter-evidence presented, exposing her manipulation24th
August 2024 - L.O. calls from airport to play fantasy about meeting me there.
Last manipulation attempt and false hope creation
26th August 2024 - L.O. ghosts me after narcissistic discard. Never speaks to me again.
Complete abandonment and beginning of retaliation phase
Additional Incidents since the Discard
Professional Positioning
15th September 2024 - L.O. starts new position at German publishing house. Takes selfie with Dom
Career advancement while maintaining deceptive relationship narrative
Cyber Warfare Begins
19th November 2024 - L.O. and boyfriend Dom attack me in prolonged hacking attempt (continues 10 days)
Escalation to cybercrime and digital harassment
24th November 2024 - Dom posts selfie of L.O. and himself embracing (photo taken in September)
Public revelation of ongoing relationship despite previous denials
Legal Warfare
18th December 2024 - L.O. lays false charges (cybercrime, stalking, sexual assault, fraud, revenge porn) with Interpol
Strategic legal attack with fabricated accusations
14th February 2025 - Police arrive at my house, confiscate computer (my only income source)
Real-world impact of false accusations on my livelihood
27th April 2025 - L.O. convinces employer K.F. to send company lawyers with bogus harassment case
Workplace manipulation and continued legal pressure
Counter-Legal Action
30th April 2025 - I lay criminal charges against L.O. (cybercrimes, hacking, identity theft)
Evidence-based counter-charges filed
14th May 2025 - Police collect evidence from me to send to Germany for charges against L.O.
Official investigation begins based on documented proof