"You are too scared to come here for real. Either come here or leave my life. And make money. Seriously."           

                                                                                                                                                                                L.O. (The terrified Victim)

The Email Ultimatums

What you are about to read is a series of raw, unfiltered email exchanges from mid-June 2024, a pivotal moment in the collapse of my relationship with L.O., who was at this point operating under her alias Nova. These messages mark a shift from covert manipulation to overt hostility. They are not simple emotional outbursts. They are a calculated barrage of threats, coercion, sexual degradation, guilt tactics, blame-shifting, and thinly veiled extortion, all framed under the pretense of “setting boundaries” or “demanding respect.”

In these emails, L.O. attempts to weaponize several recurring narratives:

• That I was “recording her” as a form of violation, while simultaneously admitting to saving screenshots, private messages, and sexually explicit recordings of her own.

• That I was the “criminal,” “coward,” and “abuser”, despite her issuing demands for money, hurling sexually degrading insults, and threatening public retaliation.

• That our relationship was “toxic” because I wouldn’t fly to her, delete evidence, or comply with her ultimatums, not because of her escalating abuse.

What’s most telling is the pattern: she frames each email as either a final farewell or a definitive threat, but always returns to the same obsessive point, control of the narrative, deletion of the evidence, and restoring control.

This is not just a breakdown in communication. It is a psychological pressure campaign, intended to isolate, destabilize, and dominate. Every paragraph that follows is real, timestamped, and preserved exactly as it was received.

These emails speak for themselves. But if you read them carefully, and compare them to her public claims of being the terrified victim, you’ll see the mask slip. And when it slips, what emerges is not a wounded victim seeking peace… but a calculating abuser trying to silence the only person who knows the truth and who is doing her best to get rid of the evidence. These are the real thoughts she does not want anyone to see.

Her first Blackmail.

I received this email and to my shock realized she was actually blackmailing me to delete evidence.

"Here is my first draft. Come back to Discord, prove on every level that you didn't make copies of my voice files, delete and do everything I want you to, or this mail is reaching her today

Dear Zelda

This is me, Lea. I'm writing you a mail since Klaus made me block you on Facebook. You gave me your email back then and ask for the private information Klaus shared about you with me. You wanted to know what he said about you to me. You should know how terribly he talked about you, what intimate things he told me about you and your past cancer, how he insulted you, how he told me he doesn't love you and wants to be with me.

I am willing to tell everything to you now, because you deserve to know the truth. Klaus and me are done with each other, and he has treated me terribly in the end, so terribly that I even had to show the police and he still kept writing me mails, more than 20 per night, threatened to kill me, said things like :

"I'm pretty sure I know where you live and you know I like to play detective" He went even further than that by making porn voices of messages I sent him and made a AI voice of them. He threatened to send these fake voice files of me to my boss, threatened me to lose my job and reputation if I wouldn't do what he wanted he would take the things I told him about my clients to let my "fake AI voice" say them, and threatened me to send these to the clients.

He did this not only once but several times. Plus he insulted me in the worst possible way, and when i told him I want to stop the contact he got worse with the threats and insults. I have over 50 emails that threatened me to prove this. I got very scared and I am still scared today. I am still considering to contact the police. He said terrible things about you, but also all these emails so you can see how he insulted and threatened me. It was really terrible and in my opinion you should know to whom you are married and what kind of monster he is.

So I will forward you a bunch of emails (he sent me) as well as a bunch of screenshots of Discord where you can see the things he said about you as well as the sex talk . He kept saying he loves me and kept talking about sex more and more obsessively. When I told him I do not comfortable with his behavior and don't want him to buy the tickets to Germany he freaked out on me the first time.

The Discord screenshots I can send you will also prove  that this is him. They also contain lots of private information about him so you can be sure I am not sending you any fakes.

I want to tell you some things he told me about you of which I don't have screenshots. But as there is no way I could know that if not by him

 Please let me know if there is any more information you want from me.

Lea"

She did write to my estranged wife but failed to send any of the so called evidence because there was no evidence. She simply lied.

Here is an email she wrote to me to let me know what she was planning to do if I did not follow her instructions. This was pure blackmail. Below is my response in real time when reading it.